Today is one of my busiest days of the year. In addition to all the grading, there are several ceremonies/graduation events to attend. So busy that I have to drive to work to save time.
Today my S.O. took my keys to work, along with his own. I have always hated it when he uses my keys to make a short trip in the car. I also hate it that he will sometimes make two separate trips to the same school in the morning just because my son likes to arrive earlier than my daughter. This is just too indulgent and wasteful of time and gas. The fact that he has my keys because he drove my son to school and then came back and used his own keys to drive daughter to school--that makes my head explode (almost).
Then he doesn't answer his cell as I frantically call while searching for keys to get to the ceremony in which I will be honored along with my student mentee. Why doesn't he answer? Because he is busy listening to an audiobook on his iPod on the bus. I also hate it that he relaxes on the bus to/from home, while I use the bus as an absolutely essential time to getting my never-ending pile of work done. I hate it that he works 9-5:30 and does all his work AT work. I work 6:15-7:30; 8:45-4:45; 6:45-7:30; 10-11.
Because he doesn't answer, I keep searching for my keys and miss the bus that would have gotten me to the ceremony almost on time.
See how several smaller resentments co-mingle into something bigger? I'll get over it. Venting helps--thanks!
Also, this is such a major screw-up, I think he will make some concessions as my summer starts. As it is, I work 6:15-7:25am at home, then 7:25-7:55 get the daughter ready and out the door. By 8am, my work mode has shut down a bit, and I'm more prone to putzing around. My own work will be MUCH more efficient if I get a solid 2-3 hours as early as possible. So for the rest of the kids' school year, I hope to get daughter ready 7:00-7:15am. And at 7:15 I'm out the door for 2 hours work in a cafe.