The house cleaner I hired to clean all the things the regular weekly cleaner has been missing just called. She missed our appointment yesterday. I called to see if she wanted to reschedule and she didn't pick up. Part of the work is organizing, and I need to do it with her. So it is pretty inconvenient to have her not show up, as I had scheduled my day around the appointment.
She called just now to tell me that she had been in the hospital with a stroke! She is young, around 30. And she trim and seems in good shape. So it is all the more shocking.
She says she collapsed while cleaning someone's home because of the fumes, especially bleach. She qualified the diagnosis a bit further, saying that the doctor had called it a mini-stroke (which doesn't cause permanent damage). And it isn't clear whether the doctor had said it was because of the cleaning products. It started to seem like her roommate had made that diagnosis.
Regardless, she experienced temporary decreased blood supply to her brain, and she passed out. I haven't seen any mention of cleaning fumes in my quick look through the internet medical sites. But I do see mini-strokes associated with cocaine use and alcohol.
I like her personally. We've done a good bit of talking. She is so smart. But I also know her to stretch the truth regarding her previous work (said she had worked as a professor at my university). If she does indeed have the law degree that she claims to have, one has to wonder why she is cleaning houses. I still don't have the heart to ask her.
We've rescheduled for next week. And she won't be using any "non-natural" cleaning solutions. Just vinegar, baking soda, water. Let's hope that's all it was. But I suspect her problems go deeper.
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Thursday, July 28, 2011
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Identity, dignity, and cleaning houses for a living
Back again! I'm finally returning to a schedule in which I have enough down-time to blog!
Yesterday I hired a woman off of craigslist to doing some extra cleaning that my regular cleaning man misses. She was definitely worth it. The disorganization and dirty spots in our house were starting to really stress me out.
We talked for about 10 minutes, and she volunteered that she had been a professor at my U. I was excited by the coincidence and asked some follow up questions. I told her I also worked there and started complaining about the budget cuts (which I was assuming to be the reason she was not working there any longer).
Turns out she had been doing some part-time administrative-level work at the university for a year, plus independent study (which my U doesn't pay for). I felt a bit bad for pressing her on the details. I had only wanted to have a conversation about our common employer. But I'm afraid some of her dignity was wrapped up in calling herself a professor at the U, and I inadvertently took that away.
She also said she has a law doctorate (which is a JD). I don't know why she is trying to earn a living by cleaning homes and dog-sitting. Having talked to her, she is clearly smart. And this economy sucks. I paid her more than the rate she asked for.
Also--no, I don't feel guilty about hiring people to clean my house. We feel that buying ourselves more time by hiring people to clean and cut the grass is one of the best ways to spend our money.
Yesterday I hired a woman off of craigslist to doing some extra cleaning that my regular cleaning man misses. She was definitely worth it. The disorganization and dirty spots in our house were starting to really stress me out.
We talked for about 10 minutes, and she volunteered that she had been a professor at my U. I was excited by the coincidence and asked some follow up questions. I told her I also worked there and started complaining about the budget cuts (which I was assuming to be the reason she was not working there any longer).
Turns out she had been doing some part-time administrative-level work at the university for a year, plus independent study (which my U doesn't pay for). I felt a bit bad for pressing her on the details. I had only wanted to have a conversation about our common employer. But I'm afraid some of her dignity was wrapped up in calling herself a professor at the U, and I inadvertently took that away.
She also said she has a law doctorate (which is a JD). I don't know why she is trying to earn a living by cleaning homes and dog-sitting. Having talked to her, she is clearly smart. And this economy sucks. I paid her more than the rate she asked for.
Also--no, I don't feel guilty about hiring people to clean my house. We feel that buying ourselves more time by hiring people to clean and cut the grass is one of the best ways to spend our money.
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